take initiative

no one should have to tell you what you should do. do what you need to do. sometimes we search for advice.. for opinions because we feel as if what we should do would be better if instructed by someone else rather than ourself. it doesn't work that way, sure maybe if you choose to do what YOU want to do you might fall. make a mistake. but hey, at least you'll have a lesson to learn from. you might say "i should've listened to bla bla" or "i knew i should've done this.." you regret your mistakes. but you get over it.

so choose what YOU want to do. make your life what you want it to be. ask for opinions and advice but don't let others decide what you need/should do. its always better to know you were able to make a decision for yourself. its your life, you take control.

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